The problem I see right away from the first screen shot is sending the money as a gift option. yes Paypal chages the seller a small percentage fee, but it is to protect the buyer for exactly the situation you are in. Now I am fortunate that no one I have purchased from has ever asked me to send the money as a gift, but if anyone ever did it would raise a red flag. Respectable sellers know that great customer service is just as important and sometimes more important than the value of the animal weather its $1000 animal or a $20 animal. Some times things go wrong, and the buyer protection is there to protect you as the buyer.