I usually handle and try to feed mine first day (or second day sometimes) I have them. If they eat, they are put on a normal schedule with everyone else. If they don't eat, they get left alone for a week and try again.
I think waiting 2 or 3 feedings lasting almost a month is erring a bit too much on the side of caution.
Anyways, I see you fed her...she should be fine to handle in a couple of days.