Love people who bring up Wobble.... Unless the snake is a train wreck is nothing to worry about. I have spider gene animals and all are just fine, Some of the nicest bugget morphs include them

-Killerbee
-Lesserbee
-Calico Lesserbee
-Stinger bee

Anything Bee just looks amazing, In the end, when you buy them youll notice the "wobble" if its bad or not. (sure it can get worse) but i havnt noticed that too often only gets a little better as it happens severly when stressed or excited (all which come down with age)

Dont start with a male, that is a awful suggestion. Get a nice female. (look for roughly 300+g) That way your in the safe side, and you dont have to upgrade tubs as fast, you could put at 300g into a 16qt and ride it until 1200ish grams, then go up.

IF your intent on the Spider/bumblee gene, try and ask to see the Parents, Alot of bee's are prone to browning out! (Search Doolittle) and look for pics of his Bee the nicest iv ever seen to date!

Looking for a quality wont always effect offspring but why not have an insanly nice bee to show off (Mine was beautiful yellow till 1800 when she slowly started to brown out)