In my collection of only Borneo's the males are half the size of the females and run between 10-15 lbs and less that 5 foot.. My 7 year old grand daughter can handle the males.. With supervision of course.. I can also put a 20+ pounder on her shoulder for picture purposes.. Feeding is what makes a snake big though and I have heard of much larger males.. But I do not think it is typical.. Most of the pictures you will see will be the snake alone But my FB link has a slew of my lil partner and I holding animals which may help you decide if one is within your ability.. Or you could do a post started by myself and get more condensed results..