I agree that it depends on the woman. I think Morena Baccarin rocked the look in the television show "V". I also think that Charlize Theron can pull of either and is equally stunning. All that said, there is something nice about kissing the side or back of the neck on a woman with short hair and not having to go, pffft, pffft, pffft, to get the hair out of your lips. Is that TMI?