Welllll if your an African American girl this is pretty tough since our hair grows very very slowly. My hairs been almost the same length for years lol. Which sucks so bad! And I don't do any sort of weave/extensions or anything my hair is all natural so it's a pain in the tookas (I know DooLittle like this word haha) to do anything with! My hair is kinda like shoulder length once I go through the pain staking process of getting it straightened ugh. So my husband really doesn't care how long my hair is since I really don't have control over how long it grows my hair literally does what ever it wants. It's a defiant living creature. BUT I like what Darkbird said because i love my husbands hair long. In middle school his hair was so long and gorgeous I'd just run my hands through it all the time which he didn't like because it would make it puffy lol. But now his hair is short but he leaves it just long enough so I'll have something to play with and mess up. He said the maintenance was too much trouble which I can completely understand. So I think it depends on what you feel most comfortable with and what looks best on you.
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