A female opinion on the skinny jeans on boys.... not attractive at all. They are the most ridiculous looking things. Scrawny guys that I could carry more/ work harder than? Also not attractive. Sorry. Just not my opinion of attractive.
And to the dude pointing out he "has 3 women" if you realize it's ridiculous, and weren't trying to brag, why even post that?
Mephi, like Mike said, be honest. Let her know what you have going on. You can always start as friends, and build towards a relationship if you feel you aren't ready. And while having a job might not be a "requirement" for a relationship, being responsible and stable is a good place to start (not sure how old you are, if you are old enough to have a place of your own?).