I've had a bp for about 10 months, and she's my first and only snake. I know it's normal for her to go without eating for about a month, but it doesn't stop me from worrying. I feed live and always keep a close eye on her and the rat. Since I got her, she's been a very skittish snake; not aggressive in the slightest. She seems almost too scared of the rat to eat. Is there anything that I can do?