Thanks for the edit Randy!
The only sure-fire way to take down the "nasty factor" is to make it clear that it just won't stand. There are plenty of forums for the venting of spleens by people who haven't found their way to therapy yet (a joke, I swear). :lol:
Most of the other reptile forums are inhospitable. Let's all make it a point to see that this one doesn't get that way. A modified "momma's rule" might help, If you can't figure out a nice way to say something, then just say nothing.
IMO,
Ken