I think his fear comes out of ignorance. I think if he was more educated on reptile keeping he would be more comfortable. I can see his concern though. With the larger snakes it is recommended, if not, necessary to have 2+ people handling the snake. If your bf doesn't want to do it who else do you have?
This is more personal but if he's totally ok with crushing your dreams and brushing your ambitions off like that I don't think he would be a good long term partner. Even if he's fearful he should show some respect.
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