No, this won't be my first. I currently have a male normal and a male pastel. I don't know why I'm even looking at more males, other than the fact I like them lol. I was looking at a black pastel male too, but then I saw the lesser. I just think they're really pretty. I have to say though, you guys do have sound reasoning on the female. It makes a lot of sense. I truly do appreciate the advice. I plan on getting a cinnamon female. I suppose I could wait until she's ready before I give myself another mouth to feed.