I totally agree. This is how I feel about taking my own animals to the vet. I don't panic at just anything and I don't feel that it's always necessary to take an animal to a vet at the drop of a hat for the least little hiccup. BUT there are times when a vet is absolutely necessary and if you're going to own an animal of ANY sort, you have to take full responsibility for that animal's well-being. That fully includes taking that animal to a vet when it is necessary. With snakes, a sign of an RI makes a trip to a vet absolutely necessary.
Flint, where are you located?? Perhaps some of us here can help you locate a good herp vet.