Whoa!! Take it easy there, killer...
The griping has been over for a while now. The instigator has been banned, and we're all having a chuckle at his expense. We're all good.
To address YOUR financial situation, I don't think it matters to the vast majority of us how much or how little you spend, provided your animals are taken care of to the best of your ability. I hope I speak for all of us when I say you shouldn't feel obligated to explain or justify your financial situation to any of us. Ever. None of us should.
Btw, you mentioned that your husband works for the fire department. Please thank him for me. That can be a challenging job, and they can't be thanked enough for all they do for us.
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