I feed in the enclosure, no aggression issues. I take the feeders in about a half hour before feeding time get the smell in the room, ( I feed live) signals feeding time. No smell... obviously not feeding time. Honestly I wouldn't do it any other way.
I would try to feed her a lil more though, my pastel female and spider male both took a rat pup and a mouse this week!

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