Thanks for replying. In your response I do see a few things I am doing wrong through due to follow other websites and things I have found before coming across this website.
1. As for her only eating 20-30 crickets a day instead of bringing the crickets to her tank I took her to the crickets tank and let her eat her fill in 10 minutes twice a day. That's all she would ever eat. I guess the bad info I found there was to not give more calcium that what I was or that could be bad. Same with the multivitamin. Crickets of course were gutloaded with Zilla cricket drink /calcium and are fed fruits and vegies.
2. With the light it is a coil never read anywhere that that was bad. And it is on the other side of the glass. Never read anywhere that that was bad either. And bad info on temp care sheet I had from pet store had those temps on it so that's what I did unfortunately.
3. I use the zilla humidity gauge with thermometer on the heated side and a stick on thermometer on the shaded side. I keep the humidity at 20%.
Her water dish is in with her and it gets changed morning and night. I will make the changes you suggested and hope for the best.