If you're going to do illegal stuff, don't post pics/videos on facebook, youtube, etc.
Never, ever underestimate the vindictiveness of an ex.
Better yet, if it's illegal, do not do it. I think Omaha is one of the few areas to have an outright ban on large constrictors.
"Out of suffering have emerged the strongest souls; the most massive characters are seared with scars".- Edwin H. Chapin
"When a man is pushed, tormented, defeated, he has a chance to learn something; he has been put on his wits ... he has gained facts, learned his ignorance, is cured of the insanity of conceit, has got moderation and real skill".
- Ralph Waldo Emerson