I agree and it might not be a full fear. It's more of the touching part I don't care for, I don't like when they touch me, it makes me scream like a little girl. I have no problem with looking at them and watching them do things or picking them up with a tissue or putting them in a cup and placing them outside(I won't/don't kill spiders). If one is crawling on the ceiling I shrug at it and let it do it's thing.