I wouldn't be with someone who tried to tell me what to do with my money haha.
I think its important to be open and discuss with your partner about what you're spending, if its joint money or big purchases. But if its my own spending money, not for bills or whatnot, then i wouldn't let anyone tell me what to do with it.
EDIT: also i would look at this thread without really bringing gender into it. I don't think wives should restrict husbands and i dont think husbands should restrict wives. Within reason of course of course lol.