Thank you i got enough courage and plucked him out quickly, he was hissing alot of the time but was just sitting there so i think hes just a very vocal snake but the guy explained how to get him and that his kids always got him out and that so i got alot of confidence from that. He just explored my bed and went through my top haha but i stroked near his head and on his head and he was great like a totally different snake. I think he is just pretty territorial of his viv, but thats all fine and hes had his first rat here too (boiled). He did eat it on the wood bark flooring but hes always been fed like that so i guess it will be fine he ignored my other pets (even though the dog left quickly haha) thanks everyone x