The one thing you are going to learn in this hobby is patience. She just missed her first meal and shed just recently. She may take a meal at her next feeding who knows. Once you get a male you should quarantine him for at least 30-60 days even if he is at your friends house before introducing him into your collection. If you start QT today you are looking at your first introduction around 12/9. I start introducing my males around Thanksgiving so 12/9 is not too far off.

You will begin to introduce the male on a set schedule until the female ovulates which can take months. Once she ovulates you will no longer need to introduce the male. It is a very long process so you do have some time but I will start looking into getting a male situated soon.