Don't just think of your females as "getting to weight" ... ensure they are mature enough, age wise as well. I have a 1500g female Pumpkin Champagne that's only a year old. Born big. Grows like crazy. She won't even know a male BP exists until at least another year.
If they are only possibly getting to their weight... the chance of them going right off the bat, their first year, is slim. So essentially you have a for sure normal female and spider female. I'd put the Cinny, Lesser and Vanilla to your Spider... and the Spinner and Bee to your normal.
Whatever you decide, good luck and have fun![]()