So, are my requirements too hard/high?

[Neal]

Eh personally (just my 2 cents), I wouldnt revolve your matchmaking around those hobbies at all.

I'd be looking for qualities like empathy, critical thinking, and intelligence (hawtness is a + too but not at the expense of the first 3 qualities).

Find a girl with those qualities and it really won't matter what hobbies your into, she will find things about them that she likes.

Well I already cleared that up that she doesn't have to be into my hobbies, just doesn't mind them. On that I will not budge because if she doesn't like either of them and wants me to ditch one then she will have to go. So I guess more or less somebody who's okay with the hobbies and anything after that is just a bonus.