Thanks all for some really helpful replies. I willingly accept advice from those who know better. It seems it is smartest for me to purchase one from a dealer which I am fine to do. Maybe the best bet is to visit the next Reptile Expo as they happen quite often? I assume I can find reputable dealers there? My main concern is getting one that is docile and not skittish. I know the more handling the better in this regard but I am guessing some just like to be handled less. It also seems getting some sort of morph makes sense - I am happy to stay away from any which may be predisposed to health issues. What would be some recommended morphs to research? I know she also liked the orange variant (I think we researched it as orange ghost?). I think its good advice to let her pick as it will increase her investment into the responsibility.

Is there a posting spot for recommended breeders on the site? Are any in the New York area? Should it matter?