Sounds just like me. I have dogs and cats and what people would consider "normal" pets. I don't stand out in a crowd. Been happily married for almost 17 years. Live in a small town etc. When I do mention to people I have snakes they seem shocked then they tell me I don't seem like the "type". It just really gets on my nerves.
It's like my neighbor. He has a harley,Has tattoos and looks like what most people seem to consider the average "biker". He's told me people have actually crossed the street when they see him coming. However he and his wife are THE nicest people I know. He and his wife both do Pug rescue and he carries their one elderly pug when she gets too tired to walk. One day I had a knock on my door and it was him. They had gone to a pet expo and brought back a whole bag of free dog treat samples they had picked up for my dogs. Just really nice people. Stereotypes for any reason just suck.