Update: finally got her to eat after moving her to a 7qt tub! She didn't take it off the tongs, and came out of the tub instead of grabbing the mouse... it was very difficult getting her back in . Either way, left it in over night and she ate it. I tried getting her in a paper bag with it, and that was damn near impossible, so I gave up only for it to be damn near impossible to get her back into her cage lol. Definitely the opposite of my BP's.

I have her with an 85/86F hot spot with 78-80 ambient, is this enough? I hear they like to be cooler.