She does currently get WIC and we won't be officially getting married for a few years so that we can get some more assitance. I have cut back A LOT on the spending I used to do and now have over $1,300 in the bank...not a lot for most but for me $300 is a lot in my savings so I am feeling good on that aspect. I am not so much worried about finances as I am being just super impatient and wishing everything would just fall into place a lot easier than it is.....life wasn't made easy and that's sure proving itself.

But I am readily taking the challenge.