Yes eggs do go bad at times and in any pairing possible.
But if it were the case in these situations don't you think it would be more often and more regular?
Statistically speaking over the long haul 25% of the eggs should go bad from these pairings and it would become more obvious than just a random egg going bad here or there.
So 1 example and you are set? That's all the evidence you need?
Not very scientific in my opinion.
Until you posted about Calico x Calico supposedly being lethal I have never heard it before. As far as I can remember I have never heard of the Calico gene being brought up in any lethal combo situation.
Here's the lethal gene video from NERD where he briefly talks about Spider x Spider not being lethal.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-fhnR5YdGdI
We know very little about the overall genetic makeup of these animals besides the phenotypes. So we can't come to any absolute conclusions on any of this. Just different hypothesis from what we observe.