Yea, I suggested he try something terrestrial and slow moving, like a G. pulchripes (chaco golden knee.) I can see a fast moving arboreal being a bit intimidating if you're iffy about them to begin with.
Yea, we really are*sigh* Too bad you left and quit being one of us cool kids.
Edit: to the OP, I'm currently working on teaching her that roaches are food lol. She'll eat mealworms and shows interest in the dubias but hasn't quite gotten it yet. I'm confident she will!
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