I understand what you are saying BUT I personally think infractions should only be handled between the one who issued it and the one who got it. Take it to other MODS but not to other members. I kind of look at it like "work", would you want me chastising you in front of your co-workers? Also I tend to get a little more "blunt" in PMs but I try to make sure we understand each other. You get where I'm coming from?