So, after contradicting yourself and giving relationship advice you give a kick in the teeth to everyone else who did not agree with you or the OP and THEN you go get all butthurt about it and wonder why?
I'm more of the opinion that too many of you expect too much to be allowed to play on the internet without parental supervision.
THAT'S why I suggested you may be interested in hiking yourself, you seem to need some alone time to ponder your double standard and tender tushy.