Whoah, this thread made me way angrier than it should have...why on earth is everyone jumping on her age? She's an adult, and I don't think anyone asked for your opinions...?
OP, I think it's an awesome idea, but have to agree that it probably wouldn't be the sensible thing- BUT- it really depends on the cat. For instance, I once had a wonderful, laid-back people-pleasing cat who rode around on people's shoulders, and this would have been right up his alley.
Also, congrats on your engagement! ^_^ Don't let the fuddie-duddies get to you. Last time I checked, this was a forum geared toward animal advice, and not relationship advice. So, yeah. They can take a hike.![]()