Thats a joke. I'm not sure how it works exactly but that school needs to be reported to the state or something. Thats ridiculous.

What i would do then is sit her down, just you and her. Calmly, no yelling or pressuring, explain and reiterate what the doctors have said. Treat her like an adult. If she decides on her own to keep doing it then so be it. I would talk to your husband one on one too and really explain to him your concerns. I'm not sure how, but if there's anyway to get him to tone it down too then he really needs to. When she gets married does he want to walk her down the aisle or push her down the aisle in a wheelchair? Will he carry her everywhere for the rest of her life? Does your daughter have any interest in getting her license? Forget driving if you have no use of your legs.