Maybe it's being raised differently then. Yea, I do say get over it to people who complain about what other people think or say. I tell my girls to man up, and not worry about who said what, worry about what makes them happy. If that means they're wearing dinosaurs instead of princesses, they have my permission to tell the snotty brats picking on them to kiss their grits.
People being raised to believe that everything should be sugar ccoated with rainbows and butterflies is the cyber bully epidemic. There are jerks in the world and online. There are people who get their jollies by picking fights and making others feel bad. It sucks. Get. Over. It. It's life, and to tell anyone any different isn't going to do any good.
I'm generally a nice person, but the whole "coddling" thing really grinds my gears.
Give them all a trophy, so no one feels bad! Bleh.
/end rant
