Okay.. I just don't get why everyone needs to dig in rather than brainstorm alternatives. Everyone is being really mean!!
I also agree...what wolfy said was really really harsh and uncalled for.
In the same way that Meowmeow should just try to ignore posts from users who bother her, you guys shouldn't feed the flames by promoting a debate where the goal is to make her take back how she feels and a legitimate concern/question.
Remember that whole think before you post thing? I'd say that you all didn't HAVE to say what you did.. YOU could have just ignored it.
Derek was very helpful and respectful of her concerns. It is not unreasonable to pitch ideas to the admins and mods. It is not the duty of all of the forum members to attack another members opinion of how things should be run.