You should seriously frequent pet stores...maybe bring one of your really nice balls with you. Im sure youll get lots of girls asking you questions about it, can they hold it, etc,. I promise we do exist too! Me and my husband found each other on this forum! When we first started talking to each other, we lived almost three hours apart, in different states. And theres lots of girls who come into the store that love snakes or have them that are single. Keep your eyes open