Lol that jungle has since calmed down with regular handling and I've picked up a few more that were calm from day one. But that did get my point across. Lol a male dum isn't as large or heavy bodied as the females so I'd keep that in mind. Depending on your level of experience in husbandry really dictates which would be a better choice for you. Dums are fairly forgiving if there not quite correct for a short period and bounce back fast once they get what they need. I have no personal experience with brb but have heard they can be a little more difficult to keep.