80F with 60-65% Humidity. I use the temp and humidity gauges from Petco that they suggested I buy. I do handle her but possibly not as much as I should? I get her out and let her crawl around on me and the bed about once a week. I was handling her more at first but she seemed to get nervous and would regurgitate her food so I slacked off a little.
The mat doesn't stay wet or damp, at least that I can feel. Which could mean nothing, I may just not be able to tell. I was using reptile carpet but the humidity seemed to keep dropping. I'll pick up the stuff you suggested though. I decided against it because I was worried she might ingest it while she feeds. She's a tad sloppy when she strikes and sometimes has issues with eating after she's done constricting. I do have a tub I could feed her in instead.