Yeah but this move there is no set spot it's where ever i end up being hired. So I don't feel like dealing with making sure she is ok with where I end up being hired and I don't want to deal with making sure she's cool with living in the new place because ill be busy as crap that first year so she'll have to keep her self entertained n she's not good at that. N the final is my college has connections that will rent us out rooms in their houses after they help us get a job in their department and most them will only let the new FF move in