I think what he was trying to say is laptops are cheaper than smart phones these days and people have nice cell phones but don't have computers.....just the way this generation is taking over with tablets and cell phones being priorities but not being able to fully replace the tasks of a computer. Anyway no one should judge the OP but if they can post a thread and email photos the OP should be able to upload photos to BP.net. regardless if I were OP I would contact breeder.....if you were told the snake was a yb and its not then you need to be either reimbursed or exchanged for a yb. If you ate wanting to get into BPs a normal male will get you no where to start.....IMO you would be better off at least with a normal female. That way you can gain experience with care and husbandry and in 3 years time if you decide to breed you have a nice big girl ready to go. Good luck with whatever you decide to do!