BP are not like cats or dogs in trusting department. I have my female BEL for more than 5 months and handle 3 to 4 times a week. Strike at me a few times in the past. Now she starts to notice that I will not harm her but she is still shy.

My Albino has never stirked at me once since I got hime (18 months ago). He hang out with me while watching TV from time to time. It depends on individual snake.

Boas are different story. Generally, they are more social than ball and my Bolivian BCA will chill on my chest while I am sleeping or taking a nap. I got this boa 2 months ago from a reputable breeder and he is already 4 years old. On the other hand, there are also many nasty boas also.

Ball Pythons will not give you affection like cats or dogs.