Yep you can definitely thin your males a bit. Get a MojaveXLesser Lucy to replace those seperate codoms and get a bumblebee to replace the spider and pastel males.
I don't think finding sub-adult or a breeder sized bumblebee male is too difficult but a breeder sized male lucy might be a bit harder.Actually you may want to switch that spider gene out of the males all together since you have a lesser bee, maybe go for a good lemonblast or something?
The orange ghost is fine but you might want to pick up a female morph het OG for him in the future.