Zeus stays in his hide almost all the time. But when he gets hungry, he sets his head right at the edge of the opening to his hide like he is ready to strike at something. So, when he does that I know he is hungry, and just recently he has started to do that when Monday's roll around (his feeding day). I have not had a problem with him feeding. He has beedn eattng like a horse. If, you have given her atleast a week to get acclimated to her new surroundings, try giving her something to eat, but nothing to big, and see what she does. If she feels comfortable (like Zeus) she will eat with you watching. Hope that everything works out for ya.