Being a police officer, I run into this quite often and I would highly suggest therapy or a counselor LOOOONG before medication. I deal with SO many people who are so addicted to anti-depressants. I can understand a need for them I guess, but I think there are better alternatives. Sometimes I hate how I act or things that I've done, but I know that I have someone who loves me dearly, and if you want to know what I'm talking about PM me, I'll be glad to share my thoughts with you. Prayers and thoughts sent your way my friend.