A bit of an overreaction IMO on your families part. My mother absolutely despises snakes. Terribly afraid of them, and even has nightmares about them. This last season I invited her over to show her all about my snakes, breeding business, etc. I even scheduled her visit on a clutch cut day so she could be apart of that. She was fascinated by the time she left. Would she own a pet snake, no. She does however now have a better understanding of snakes. Our relationship has gotten better because of this.
I would try and explain the hobby to her. Reiterate that none of their money has been used for your hobby. Ask her if she would like to come over and spend a little time learning about the animals. Eventually, I would imagine, she will come around. With all the hoarding, animal cops, etc. shows on TV, they may just be worried and misinformed![]()
Wish I had more advice for you. I do wish you luck and hope everything turns out good for you...