I haf simialr problems this year... Take a step back and relax. I KNOW ITS HARD. The only thing that can make them breed is themselves give him time. Check tubs once a day for a lock dont open any more than that. Would you want your parents walking in on you trying to do your business!!

Still early in season. I noticed these last 2 years all my males shed within 2 weeks of each other and then are ready!! Dont know if its coincidence or science but something i noticed