Thanks! I started pairing her up with my spider in July, but never witnessed any locks. After about a month of never seeing any action from the spider, I put her with my male normal and they locked for about 72 hours the first time around. I've been pairing those two ever since, and she stopped locking up about a month ago. Never was surprised with any locks from the spider, but only the babies will tell!
She's actually more miserable acting than pissy. She just gives me this look of, "Why me," every time I check on her, lol.