+1 on after she sheds!
Not quite the same observation . . . but it seems like not all tail wagging is a come hither. The one time I've seen a female tail wag at a male, she was pretty upset, wagging her tail, peeing, zipping around her cage as soon as I introduced him. The male's reaction wasn't interest -- he hid in a corner. They'd locked a few times before that happened and after a week or so for her to calm down, they bred again.
Just let everyone chill for a while, they should be good![]()