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    yup...

    So...I caught feelings for a girl who says she doesn't feel the same. Any advice?
    "you only regret the risks in life you DON'T take."

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    Re: yup...

    Quote Originally Posted by cecilbturtle View Post
    So...I caught feelings for a girl who says she doesn't feel the same. Any advice?
    Give her a Reptar... Ladies love Reptar.
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    BPs are like pokemon. you tell yourself you're not going to get sucked in. but some how you just gotta catch'em all.

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    whats a reptar?
    "you only regret the risks in life you DON'T take."

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    Buck up ****o! But, on a serious note, if she's explicitly said she does not reciprocate the feelings that you have professed for her then you probably aren't going to change her mind.

    Some people would say just move on, friendships are only for using each other and if you can't use her for what you want (whether it be friendly conversation or it's drugs (I'm kidding, but I don't want this to come off as a "I use all my friends for personal gain")) then it's time to move on. Cease all contact, try again in a few months and maybe distance will make the heart grow fonder.
    Last edited by Kodieh; 11-17-2012 at 04:24 AM.

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    Re: yup...

    Quote Originally Posted by cecilbturtle View Post
    So...I caught feelings for a girl who says she doesn't feel the same. Any advice?
    Backtrack! Be like, "I was kidding, I just wanted to see what you'd say."

    Really, be friends. Some of the best relationships start that way. Worst case, you end up with a really cool friend. Try to think past the initial butterflies that we all have in the beginning, that feeling isn't permanent whether a romantic relationship develops or not.
    Adversity does not build character, it reveals it

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    Try to convince yourself that your feelings for her are misguided.
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    I think the worse thing you could do is remain friends with her in hopes that it will turn into something more. If you want to stay friends, accept the rejection and move on from it. If you can't accept it, then cease contact. I've had a few guys remain friends with me for the sole purpose of trying to wear me down and win me over, and it only really lead to resentment on their part and hurt feelings on my part when I figured it out. There will be other girls that are just as great (or even better) than her

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    Quote Originally Posted by h00blah View Post
    Give her a Reptar... Ladies love Reptar.
    Solid advice right here.
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    Tase her and throw her in the trunk. Jk jk don't do that they'll take me down with you, and I'm too pretty for jail. I think it's best to remain friends. Don't expect her to change her mind though. If you can't handle just being friends, break off the friendship. But just leave her high and dry tell her why you can't be her friend.

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