Extreme Rant. (about a stupid family issue)

[Quantum Constrictors]

Then just leave. If they get home before you, they will see him sleeping. If they still blow up in your face and get all nasty, simply say in a calm tone "I've tried reasoning with the both of you. The dog is in no harm, and perfectly fine being left alone. I am no longer willing to put my life on hold because you *sister* cannot take responsibility for your own dog. Good day. *walk out, and or brace for impact*"

If she kicks you out, so be it. Bunk with a friend for a night or two until she comes to her senses. Or, start looking for a cheap studio flat.

Just my 2¢
I hope everything works out whatever happens!

I 100% agree.

So just... leave him. If he doesn't cause a ruckus or damage to the house, I don't see the issue other than your mother and sister's comfort. If they're abusing you physically, take note of it and actually report it. It's not your animal, and it absolutely is not your responsibility. I am not optimistic about this having a happy ending for everybody, but just stick to your guns about the dog not being one of your issues. Heck, doesn't seem like he even has anxiety if he just sleeps. Big load of nothing from controlling mother and sis.

This site is full of scripts for dealing with difficult people. A lot of it focuses on dating issues and what not, but they also have people who write in about difficult family stuff, might be helpful to you. This is sounding less like a dog issue and more like mom and sis wanting their doted furry baby watched at all times so that -they- feel better. Steaming load of crap, I'm irritated with them and haven't even met them

Thanks V.P,

They have never physically done anything but they are experts at mental abuse.



Another thing is that I have my own dog. But she is a Bulldog. She is only 6 months old but she really isnt a hassle and I mean I only want to leave for a night and a day!

My bulldog has gone through training and knows a ton of commands and is crate trained. I have left her alone before and all she does is just goes and lays on the couch or plays with her toys.

But they ALWAYS use her against me. Saying that if I leave then thats me forcing them to babysit her.

I am like REALLY?! The dog is already independent. She goes out when she needs the bathroom and if she gets bored she plays with her toys. All they would have to do is feed her in the morning and at night. Thats not babysitting her at all!!!