Quote Originally Posted by kevinb View Post

Oh well, at least I have a good job now with good money and so does my gf for that matter.

So another day another dollar for now!
This is the key right here. Unfortunately, many people are just plain unreliable and can't be counted upon to actually follow through with their promises. Trust in yourself and your girlfriend, work hard and save as much as you can, and eventually, you won't need to rely on others. Good luck.